melaniejaye (melaniejaye) wrote in datinandrelatin,
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I have a question for you all. (PLEASE RESPOND)

Whats everyones thoughts about a femal@e proposing to her s/o?

Edit: this is a male female relationship in which the male would usually propose to the female. The female is the one who would like to propose.

Now however if the LGBT community is in here, when you plan on getting married how do you choose who will propose? I would assume it would be either of you when whichever one of you feels ready. But for the sake of this post if you were to choose who would it be?

EDIT #2: I asked ryan ( my s/o) as well as ask men on reddit, how they would feel of their s/o ( female) proposed to them. Users of reddit were all for it aside from the few who would feel emasculated. Which was a great responce. I love all those men for their responces. Ryan on the other hand. I asked him Earlier today if he would be my long term fiance being that he does not want to be married anytime soon. He said no and he aaid me asking ( if i were being serious which i wasnt ) would make him feel emasculated so that idea is out the window.

I will be adding an edit with more questions after I get a few responces. 

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